thank you GBERET, I am a tour guide and I have people on their phone ruining everyone else's tour because their life is so important and everyone gets to share in their conversation. I usually have the opposite of pushing, I get the tourists who expect the whole bus to wait while.
1. We all get to sit in the bus and wait for a member of their party who is "on the way "
2. Run to the car to get something they forgot
3. [ this is the best ] hold everyone up while they run to the car to nurse the baby
4. wait while they finish smoking
I have had more than one person continue talking on the cell and I just shut up and stare until they get the hint that the tour doesn't start until they hang up.
So, to me, pushy is also self absorbed individuals that think they are more important than anyone else