I actually just need to get away by myself. The last 18 months have been hell. I am not sure how much money I will need? I am planing of getting a room by myself. Should I bring my Tux, or just bring shorts? Will I need a book? How do you talk to a women without her feeling your trying to pick her up? How do you tell if she wants you to pick her up? At my age the word "no" doesn't bother me, it's the word "yes" that scares the hell out of me? I don't remember what to do after she says yes. Hell it's been 30 years.