Most of the people that actually perform this last act of "release" have little idea of how it affects the ones they leave behind.
My cousin committed suicide last Sunday night. A wonderful person just overloaded with tons of personal and legal problems. A very good person just finally saying "I've had enough". I'll miss him.
The unrealistic guilt and torment this is putting his 3 sons and ex-wife through, not to mention his 93 year-old Mother, is unbelievable. I grieve for all of them.