This may be a dense reply to this, but is the original poster male or female?
As a male myself, it would be interesting to hear what scent ladies like on a man. (This was my original take on this thread, although, everyone seems to be approaching this as a woman asking other women.)
And my take on how heavily scented we should be, is that the scent should enhance another's experience of us, not overwhelm it. By that I mean that someone would need to be very physically close to us to even be aware of it. A hint of fragrance as you're slow dancing.
Otherwise, you should appear to have no scent at all.
My 2 cents,