Well, I see I am not the only one who assumed the OR was a woman, but after reading it again.......I think it's a male asking for female opinions. So.....MY suggestion is FOR a female.
AR......I have been plagued with this all of my life, too. My friends.....even new ones are most understanding of the problem and DO go out of their way to acommodate my sensitivities. Well, everyone except my SISTER, who wears the worst smelling designer stuff! Don't be afraid to gently mention this to your friends.......if they really are friends they will gladly assist.