That is a hard question - who is more blessed, the one who gives, or the one who receives. I love to be able to do for others, but when your need is desperate, and it seems that there is no hope and an answer is provided - then how can that be more well received.
We have all heard it is more blessed to give than recieve. The scripture supports that as well. But as I look at it more closely - I feel like the the blessor and the blessee are two parts, and that together they make a whole. I think they both recieve equally from it - tho in different ways.
There is no greater joy than raising a child to have compassion and empathy for others.
Job well done - as they say the apple usually doesnt' fall far from the tree.