Just because I think someone who prefers the Horizon Court on Formal night and then enjoys to the show in casual clothing is okay doesn't mean I do the same. I was just trying to encourage the OP to go to formal dinner and not miss a special night.
For the record, we have dressed accordingly for every formal night on every cruise and will continue to do so. I just don't know why people get upset just because someone changes to casual clothing to enjoy a show in the dark. Whatever.
Teresa and Larry
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