We just got back from an Elation cruise on June 11th. This time we had VIP so it was only a 10 minute disembarcation. Usually we are the last off because we live in San Diego and don't require a flight anywhere. (It is usually about 9:30 or 10am.)
If you are flying out of San Diego, it depends on when your flight is, as to when you disembark.
Those having early flights get off first. The ship knows who is flying when and where, so they let you off accordingly.
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