I like to relax and leave the planning/doing to others. To help me relax, I like to maintain a low level buzz starting with bloody marys during my morning scrabble/cards session and continuing the entire day. If you have great crew, you have nothing to worry about in having a fun relaxing cruise.
Any cruise we go on where the ship doesn't sink, is a great cruise ! We also "go with the flow". We learned a while ago that getting upset over things we can't do anything about is futile .
That is the way I feel.
I all I have to do is show up on the ship and the fun is allways there.
All of my 15 cruises have been quite enjoyable.
Carnival Liberty New Year's Eve 2007
Liberty of the Seas 5/2008+11/2009
Allure 1/16/ 2011
Vision OTS 2-14-2015