we are planning to cruise in 2005 summer, taking our children and grandchildren ages 5,8, 11, and 12. our plan is to put kids in rooms with parents and probably one kid in with my husband and i. i understand the rooms would have upper berths that come down. i am assuming a room like this would sleep 4. now my question is how comfortable are these upper berths? are they appropriate for small children or an adult as well. everyone we talk to exphacizes, do not spend lots of money on rooms. it is wasted money. they say get inside cabins, bunk kids with you and do not let that part of the cruise get you stressed. my husband are paying for everything so anything we can saave money, hooray. help me on this. patty