t j - Unfortunately, most ships depart for the next port earlier than the 'wild partying' begins. Your best bet for daytime fun is at a Margaritaville, Senor Frogs, or Carlos & Charlies. Not sure if any are located at the islands you mentioned. Since you'll likely be there during the day, check out Coki or Sapphire Beach in St. Thomas. They both have bars/restaurants, and you can catch some rays (or some z's) on a sunny beach rather than in a dark stinky bar.
Cheers,
MaryC