I have been on her, and she is a beauty.
I have some suggestions for you.
Are you both single? Try posting this on the singles board, and see if you get more of a response.
Cruisemates also has a place for you to post that will allow those who are also going at the same time. It is called Meet on Board. You can find it by going up to Interactive Features and clicking.
I hope you have a wonderful cruise.