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Old August 30th, 2005, 08:18 AM
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We just returned from an RCCL cruise and were walking in the dining room for dinner. We saw a nice table near the window, but were told by the waiter that the two people sitting there wanted to be alone. They were an older couple, and I guess I was just surprised that people would cruise and not want to meet new people. I mean, to me, that is one big draw of cruising, to meet new friends!

We ended up sitting at a table with (believe it or not!) the mother in law of one of my co-workers! (Yes, it is a small world!) and a newlywed couple who we plan to keep in touch with, even went to Disneyland with them the day we returned!

I just think it's a shame that people deny themselves the opportunity to meet others from all over the world, but that's just my never-to-be humble opinion.....

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Old August 30th, 2005, 08:43 AM
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to each his own.
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Old August 30th, 2005, 09:41 AM
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Jean,

I completely understand this. Not everyone enjoys dining with a large group of people. You rarely go to a four star restaurant and expect to be seated with six other people. There's nothing wrong with people not wanting to be social at dinner. I know the number of tables for two is far less than the demand.

Many people go on a cruise for a romantic time with each other and want that time. My wife and I have taken a couple of these cruises and had a table for two and enjoyed it. Those cruises were our time together and we greatly enjoyed it. After 22 years we haven't ran out of things to talk about.

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Old August 30th, 2005, 10:41 AM
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i like siting with alot of poeple its fun geting to meet new people i meet the nice
lady from new york on our last cruise we still keep in touch
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Old August 30th, 2005, 11:04 AM
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Maybe they just didn;t want to have to make insignificant small talk with strangers.
However, were they at a large table or a table for 2?
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Old August 30th, 2005, 12:00 PM
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My wife and I both had jobs wherein we had to deal with the general public and their problems day in and day out. Sometimes it was a pleasure to just be by ourselves and relax a bit.. Maybe the folks you refer to were just wanting some quite time by themselves so they could wind down a bit.
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Old August 30th, 2005, 12:07 PM
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I enjoy a table for two. We've had some dinner companions that got obnoxious, and I swore we'd never eat at a big table again. That being said, I hope to dine with my fellow CM's, however!

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Old August 30th, 2005, 12:20 PM
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Maybe they had a bad experience. Luckily we have had all good experiences. Except the last cruise, the people only showed up one night. Felt dumb at a large table and only us! Maybe they were on a secret rendevous??? Never know!

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Old August 30th, 2005, 12:44 PM
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I agree with Mike. Mark and I like tables for two. We go on vacation to be with each other, not strangers. I don't find it at all sad that I would rather spend a meal talking to my best friend than enduring interminable small talk about "what do you do" or "so is this your first cruise."

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My son and I have cruised 2 times. Both times we lucked out by having wonderful and interesting table mates. We enjoy meeting new people and learning about their adventures, cities they live in etc.

However, if I was cruising with my sweetheart (which I hope to do soon), now THATS another story. I really think we would prefer an intimate table for 2.

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Old August 30th, 2005, 01:23 PM
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Its very simple. People make decisions based upon what THEY want to do and it's not always the same as what YOU want to do. Hello?
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Old August 30th, 2005, 02:17 PM
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They were an older couple, and I guess I was just surprised that people would cruise and not want to meet new people.

On our cruise we had a table for two but it was our anniversary.

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Old August 30th, 2005, 06:20 PM
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On our ten day cruise sometimes we sat with others, sometimes alone..each has its own positive aspects.
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