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Old May 19th, 2008, 09:19 PM
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There is an interesting article in the June Conde Naste Traveler, all about customs and etiquette, in Italy, Greece, Croatia, and Turkey.

Have you ever felt awkward abroad, or think you might have made a faux pas? Just reading the article made me nervous:)

Who knew that crossing your legs in conversation, in Turkey, with someone of a higher status is thought to be rude, or in some parts, burping is considered a compliment!

In Croatia, never say yes, the first time you are offered somethiong.

In Italy, try to eat with your right hand, there is a lingering religeous bias against the left hand....

In Greece, don't flat out refuse food, and do tip , but not too much...

And, just as an aside, there are soooo many ways to give someone the bird:)


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I guess I should stay at home, I'm sure that I could single handedly create some sort of international conspiracy unwittingly.
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Jen, I would be right beside you, in the American Embassy, calling for help!
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Just look at the differences in England and the United States... and we speak the same language!
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Trip, I saw this exact same post in another forum; a couple of you must have read the same article. We just received our new Conde Nast today; I need to read the article.
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Since I am left handed that could create a problem. My right hand is the one that had the surgery, that finger is stiff and does not bend. I can see me now trying to use a fork in a hand with the finger stuck straight up. Jen and Trip, move over/

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Marc, the article was quite interesting, and it goes to show you, how, without meaning to, what you say, and how you do it, and a gesture which is innocouous here, could surely offend your host country.

A little homework, before going, would be a wise decision. But, I admit, it could be daunting to remember it all:)
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Has it occurred to anyone that folks in those countries might be AS educated, or even MORE educated than the average tourist who pops into their area? MAYBE they might just cut you a little slack. You do have FOREIGNER written on your forehead, after all.
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Laura, I'm right there with you. Both Keith and I are left handed. We've been to Italy, though, and never had a problem. Just lucky that time. I guess.

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I am left handed as is my girl freind, who is Italian and never heard of that. I have to read that article. I wonder if the "folks from other countries worry about making a faux Pas when they visit here in the good old USA?
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I have to mention this. As a child in Holland, I never ever got hit for being left handed. It was never an issue, it was just normal. No one ever tried to corect me. We come to Canada, and in school, a teacher whips me, yes whips me with a ruler over my left hand every time I picked up a pencil with my left hand. It got so bad that I refused to write, as I simply could not with my right hand. Eventually I was sent to a psycholgist who asked me why I refused to do my school work. I explained to him that every time I pick up a pencil I get the ruler cracked over my hand. He asked me if he made sure no one hit me any more, if I would start to do my work again. I said yes, but it really turned me off to school for a long time. I should mention at the time the teacher thought we were backward immigrants. Ironically, years later while working in the emergency room of a large hospital, her son was admitted, he passed away of gun shot wounds in a settling of accounts( drugs) . I saw her, and she saw me, and my name and said "I think I know you". I let it go, but all I wanted to say to her was "Ya your the b-tch that whipped me daily for using my left hand and who thought we were backward immigrants". My son is a leftie, some people made remarks,( oh he is reaching with his left, try and encourage him to use the right) they could see from my glare what I thought of this.......
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In Croatia, never say yes, the first time you are offered somethiong.

We do say yes the first time only if we are being offered wine or Macaruni (croatian dish).
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