I just returned from the QM2 and as usual had a fantastic time.
Your documents will have a check-in time listed but you can arrive at the Ocean Terminal anytime. If there is a line-up you will be given a numbered card and directed to a waiting area until they are ready to check you in.
Once aboard you will have access to your cabin where you can stow your carry-on luggage and then proceed to explore the ship or have something to eat in King's Court buffet.
No you will not stick out. QM2 has a loyal gay following and the Daily Programme lists "Friends of Dorothy" meetings most days in the Commodore Club. Your fellow passengers will be an interesting mix of people and you already have something in common, you chose to experience a transatlantic crossing.
If you have more questions you wish to ask you can reach me at
lap600@hotmail.com.
I've spent a lot of time on the ship and can spend hours obsessing about her.
Linda