You'll love the cruise!!!
The kids clubs are free, the nursery is NOT.
AS far as flowers, see disneycruise.com, for ship board gifts. Also, when you get your cruise pasckage int he mail, you will receive a pamplet about ordering on board gifts, baskets, etc.. if you don't recive this, contact disneycruise.com, and look for a phone # you can call. All these gifts are very expensive!!
I would recomend a suit for Palos, and for formal night. There is Pirate night, so bring clothes, hats, etc.. for that. There is semi-formal night. My husband word just a oxford shirt, with no tie, and a jacket. Then, there's formal night. Some women are in gowns, and men in tuxes. We did not do this. I was in a regular dress, knee length, and my husband and two boys (7 and 5) in suits/ties, and we did not feel underdressed.
There will be people who do not listen to the dress code, and wear shorts as well.
We just got back from our Christmas 2007 Disney Magic Eastern Carribbean Cruise. We loved it, and can't wait to go back!!!
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