First Cruise -- Our family will be going on the Adventure of the Seas 4/20/03. We consist of Grandma, Grandpa, Mom(Me), Dad, 16yo boy, 14y/o boy, 9y/o girl and an almost 3 y/o girl. I understand that some excursions will not allow the "baby" or 9y/o to participate but I'm wondering if they'll just let them go along and "watch" since we have so many baby"tenders".
For example, in Aruba, Grandma and Grandpa are considering the Helmet Dive, the boys and my husband want to Snuba and I wouldn't mind sitting on the beach with the girls. All of these activities take place on DePalm island and we could all go together. Same situation on Curacao with the Seaquarium where the boys want to Animal Encounter Scuba and the girls just want to see the Seaquarium. We hate to split up for different excursions at each port.
Should we book thru the shore excursion website ahead of time or just wing it when we get there. If I direct my questions to the cruise line now, will I get the same answers when we get to the island. When they say minimum age to participate does that mean the little one can't even come along? What should I do???