RCI has a great youth program -- kids have to be three and potty trained to participate. I don't see any down parts of Legend of the Seas. Since it's the Med, there will be a few less kids in the program than the Caribbean which means the youth counselors might have more one on one time with your special needs child.
Luisa Frey Gaynor
Family Cruise Editoir
We cruised a year ago on Legend of the Seas to the Mex. Riveria. A wonderful ship and crew, they go all over the world due to the speed and size of the ship. We had an excellent time, I think you will too.