May partner and I and another friend did Disney Wonder last Sept. Ship is incredibly beautiful. Shows were outstanding. If doing the Bahamas the Disney Island is the best. In Nassau we rented a room at hotel across the street from atlantis (I beileve Days Inn) that has atlantis pool privileges. It was worth the $$ to spend the day there. Although a short trip, we did meet several other gay couples (as is the case on virtually any cruise). There were a lot of children on the cruise as one would expect of any Disney enterprise, but ship is well laid out with separate entertainment areas and pool areas for adults. We never felt like we were being overrun by children. Also, Disney does a good job of separating families and adults only tables in the restaurants. And late seating draws mostly adults and families with older children. We had a wonderful time - I hope you enjoy your trip.