Alright everyone be honest. lol. What does everyone look for in a potentional boyfriend or girlfriend? A good looking person who doesn't have a lot in common or an average looking person who you connect with a lot.
Looks are what bring people together and personality is what keeps people together. So, I seek guys based on good looks, and then I get to know them. If they are interesting I keep them, but if they turn out to be dull duds I ditch them...
So in other words looks first and personality second ;p
looks are the most important thing at first, but after that personality kind of becomes more important
if a guy is hott but then u find out hes dumber than a rock that makes him less attractive..and if a guy is just ok-looking but u talk to him and your personalities really click then he magically becomes cuter!
well initally we all go for people we think are hot, but i know some of my best friends that are girls and stuff arnt the hottest people, i mean u can have looks but if u dont have a good personality its such a bad turn off and ruins everything
you are initially attracted to a person with good looks, but personality is really important, so in a way both, although just because someone may not be the most attractive person I would never just cross them out in my mind cuz I like a person I can get along with and carry a conversation... so I would say equally important
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Actually, surpisingly I go for personality. My boyfriend and I met online and got to know eachother and after that, we met up and now we've been dating for a year and 2 months.
My previous boyfriend was in no way a "looker" but we were really good friends for a year until I said yes to him when he asked me out. Things didn't work out---too busy with school--obviously since he got into Stanford.
Although there are the times when I think a guy is hot, but when I see him act (without me talking to him) He usually always ends up either cocky or a jerk (not saying all hot guys are)
But then again, this situtation on a cruise would be totaly different because you don't have time to get to know someone, so its the looks that matter the most, and after that is established you can get to know the person.
my ex girl friend was the type of person i could hang out with as best freinds one minute and then be romantic the next, i liked it, it lasted a while too and we're still friends, so i deffinatly say personality when ur looking for a girlfriend or boyfriend
I would say personalitly is what makes relationships last, not looks. Looks are what first attract you to a person, though.
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