HELP!!!! girls i need ur help on this 1

[majorcutie]

hey ok i have this problem i like this kid alot ive liked him for 16 years but he dont know that i exist really becuz im 2 shy 2 talk 2 him like i can b around him n w.e but for whatever reason i just cant talk 2 him n im not the really shy around guyz so i dont get it but ne wayz i want him 2 notice me n my cuzin is gettin married soon n im a bridesmaid n i get 2 walk down the isle with this kid so since we're both in the wedding im gonna b spendin alot of time 2gether n i want him 2 notice me n actually notice that im a girl i wanna blow him away like shock him n everything so me n my soon 2 b cuzin r suppose 2 go shoppin 2 get an outfit for the rehersal dinner or w.e n he likes preppy girls but im not preppy i donno what i am but im like more on the punky side n i wanna b myself n comfy n not have 2 change who i am for him 2 notice me n i want him 2 like me for who i am .... what should i do?????

well im not a girl but i would simply say talk to him and tell him how your fell

[majorcutie]

thats the thing i cant bring myself 2 talk 2 him im 2 shy around him n i donno y im not like that with other guyz im crazi whacky self n ive had other bfs but itz different with this 1 i donno y hez the only person ive had a crush on this long

[BassFrets2008]

Wow, 16 years...

I duno either. Then again though, what do you have to lose? I mean, if you've known the guy for about 16 years and you still haven't really talked to him what's the worst that could happen?

Just ask him out to a movie or something, maybe even make it a double date or something so ur not as nervous.

My two cents.

or if your really that shy write him a note

[djboomb]

Dude you stalked him for 16 years.

[majorcutie]

no im not stalkin him for 16 years i dont stalk no1

[SoccerQT116]

talk to him at the rehersal or something--be lik wanna go out and get something to eat after this ...or jus strike up a conversation while ur standing there next to eachother--jus comment on something to him and he's bound to say something back

[GSUEagle26]

say to instead of 2

[BassFrets2008]

Yeah, I kinda liked SoccerQT's idea. You should really go for it. Unless he's a complete moron, he'll start talking to you. I myself get uncomortable around girls that I like, but hey, ya gotta at least talk to them.

(Btw, I'm not a girl, but hey... lol)

[djboomb]

Anyhow if i was you i ould go talk to him c'mon you dont no if he will turn you down until you try. Maybe it could turn out he likes you too. Who knows?

[BassFrets2008]

Yeah really, for all you know he's had a crush on you for 16 years too lol

[djboomb]

He likes preppy girls. So dont change who you are for him thats all im advising


Post Edited (07-19-04 17:09)

how old are you?

[majorcutie]

im 17 n when he was younger he was soo cute still is n really nice n funny n he was n still is athletic well hez still all them things we actually usta hold hands n hug when we were like 3 or 4

[BassFrets2008]

Well, that's a start, but you still need to talk to him. I duno, pretend ur 4 again and talk to him. Ok no that's stupid. But if you've known the guy that long, it prolly shouldn't be too hard. Just give it a try.

What should you do? You should spell-check your posts before you send them. Um, you're 16 years old--I say don't obsess over it. The easiest way to make someone like you is to not try.

you liked him when you were 1 ? That;s crazy

[BassFrets2008]

Meh, she means that she basicly liked him all her life I think. Of course she didn't like him when she was 1 though...



Post Edited (07-19-04 21:33)

[majorcutie]

yea ive liked him all my life