I do all the planning because quite frankly no one else wants to or cares to. There on a ship, there is good food, it stops at a port, thats all they care about. I choose the rooms, I choose the activities and they happily all comply............and its a good thing I do it because if I didnt........it would not get done. I dont over plan, I know where I want to go but I dont go nuts about it. It is vacation after all.