I am sorry that you feel that way... actually, you should know that my partner and I have a very large network of "straight" friends, which make up the vast majority of our social group. In fact, we are traveling with two of our "straight friends". So, when you make a comment like you just did, I do take offense to it.
I know that the best way for people to understand new things that they do not know about is through education, so here is an example of my point.... If you were a black woman (and maybe you are), how would you feel if I said you should be on a cruise for just "you people".
Come into the millenium and get to know some gay people, you might be surprised and also feel badly for the attitude you just displayed.
I hope you have a better understanding some day.