Hi Vince and Paul,
Just a suggestion... you may want to post a roll call with your specific cruise in the heading to help find others on board.
Also consider meetmeonboard dot com as a helpful site to meet up with other guys.
I am 54 and my boyfriend is 32... we will be on the Carnival Spirit January departing San Diego January 28th with over 30 other BajaBoyz. It's always fun to go with a group of like minded men. We go every year!