You probably won't be much interested in this cruise, but you sound like the ideal cabinmate so I just had to reply. I'm cruising Celebrity Summit, Oct 23, 6 Days out of Bayonne NJ ending up in San Juan--so it might be a little pricey for you (not the cruise itself--I have a balcony and could share quite reasonably). I've found decent shares on this site; I am traveling with a small group of freakish people--but I don't ever party in the room--that is my quiet sanctuary. I'll be working on a novel so I like some peace and quiet also. This will be my 9th cruise. If it sounds of interest let me know.