Originally Posted by ruthlessboss
True. But if she's secure, and wants charges, won't she have the hold put on that card?
Yeah - but if she is financially savvy and has a degree of independence - she'll realise that and that probably won't be an issue for her- OP may not even be a 2nd cardholder on that account.
I hope she is savvy enough to have her own secret stash of dosh - most Scotswomen do BTW
Remember OP must have some hidden talents to compensate - I hope.