Maybe Cunard or Holland might be a better fit for you but you say this vacation is more for your girlfriend. If her tastes differ from yours, she may enjoy the Allure. The Allure is a beautiful ship and there is plenty to do for adults as well as children. If this vacation is for her then "force" yourself to have a good time in whatever activity she does. If she is enjoying herself then I believe you will find it much easier to enjoy yourself. It's a great ship. Have fun.