Bob, vows seem to be exchanged throughout the week. I know that these things need appointments, as a Bridal couple were put on a waiting list as the appointments were full and they were trying to book their wedding at least 4 months in advanceand were seeking an alternative on land, if they don't get a time slot on board. You may wish to have your TA contact the Wedding coordinator to check. Also, have them find out when your pre-cruise packet was mailed. Ours arrived direct from California about 63 days before sailing, right after final payment was made through TA. The America's Cup regetta and the Champagne Catamaran tours in St. Thomas seem to be the #1 tours for St. Martin and St. Thomas.