GOOD FOR YOU! Go and have a blast. Who cares what people think or say. I mean no disrespect to anyone that has written in this forum. Everyone is merely giving there opinions and telling stories of their own experiences. I think that's a great thing, and even better if it helped open someone's eyes. Maybe yours. Maybe someone else who just reads the forum and never writes in it.
With all that said, opinions are just that. They're people's perspectives on life. No one can make their decisions based on someone else's life. We all ask for advice and opinions, but in the end we all do exactly what we want to. No matter what everyone else tries to tell us. That's how it should be. Live your life. Go and be with your man if that's what will make you happy. We're all wondering through this world in search of something. Maybe you've found what it is your searching for. If so, that's amazing. If not, then you had fun finding out that he's just a friend. Either way it is an experience, and that's what it's all about. But make sure you let us all know how it works out! Good luck, and have a blast.