Not yet, but approaching at what feels like warp speed! I'll be 40 next year. Gigi was my childhood nickname and Kay is my middle name.
That's exactly what I would have been afraid of, that my child would be made to feel anxious or unwanted as a result of the dispute. I would have handled it pretty much the way you did for the same reason. I came back on to post a P.S. -- what do you wish you had done?