If you're going to be in San Francisco for a few days before the cruise, drop me a line. I am sailing with you to Sydney and would be happy to show you a bit of The City before the trip. I'm a single male 42, so in some circles that makes me older, too...(sigh) It would be delightful to make your accquaintaince.
Do dress in layers if you're going to be here and bring an umbrella. It is cold and wet during February.