Good evening to the greatest bunch of people in the world!
I'm so sorry to say that Fran is not markedly better. I forgot when I last posted and don't want to research so I'll advise you of what has transpired the past few days.
Her white cell count, platelet count and hemoglobin all tanked. She has received Nupogen injections (to boost white cell count), platelet transfusion (in addition to the two units of blood she received of which she'll probably need more) and an immunoglobulin IV transfusion (you don't even want to know what that alone costs but I'll tell you that to get the immunoglobulin for one treatment requires the blood from 1000 donors). Her fevers however persist and they've started her on a couple of different antibiotics. Turned out that by saying she didn't have Candida even though they tested for it, I was proved wrong (so what else is new?). She has some Candida in her lungs and they've started antibiotic therapy for that.
I'd really like to post more often than I do but I'm sure you all understand why I don't. There are folks of course who will help whenever I need it but at this juncture, I don't. For some unfathomable reason (undoubtedly mental deficiency) while I love to assist others in need, for some reason I find it difficult to accept it myself. I've alway taken care of Fran even through all of her illnesses for over 39 years. But I am getting older and so will possibly at some point accept some assistance from our wonderful neighbors (outside chores, etc.) if I can't get too them. My dear Niece Deanna is probably going to drive up from her home about 20 miles Northwest of Knoxville tomorrow (at least I kinda' get that feeling). She and her husband have been out of town traveling and she has some major appointments pending.
If the doctors are unsuccessful here locally to stop these insidious fevers, then we'll be off to a major medical center either in Nashville or in Knoxville. I would prefer Knoxville as it would be more convenient for me as I could stay at my Niece's or my brother's. We, as most of you undoubtedly know, have what we consider the most wonderful friend who takes care of our dysfunctional feline menagerie while we're away so I wouldn't have to worry about that.
It goes without saying how much of a sustaining force for me that all of you are. I cannot find the proper words to tell you how much all of your concern, support and prayers have meant to the two of us.
both of you are in my Church's continous prayer circle...just be careful that you take care of yourself so you can take care of your Bride.it's ok to ask for help from your friends and family and you will continue to receive emotional support from your CruiseMate family
get some rest, when Fran gets better and you are rested we have lots of topics to debate on this board and your input is valued..I'll send you the receipe for some Gumbo so when Fran gets better you can surprise her with some
Todd, please do not feel that you can do everything yourself. Let those that can help you with whatever.
I'm not sure how much rest you are getting but get as much as you can.
Also do not feel that you have to post all the time. At this point once a week is definitely enough. And you do not need to go into big detail unless you want, Just say no better or better, whatever the case may be.
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Todd, so glad to hear from you at last. I know you must be beside yourself with all that you have to do taking care of Fran and the house, the menagerie, etc., so thank you for taking the time to update us all.
I remember going with my mom for all the same treatments, nupogen injections, immunoglobin transfusions etc. It was tough on me being there, but it sure must be 10 times worse as the patient.
My thoughts and prayers are with Fran and with you. Good thought coming your way.....Take care of yourself, and we'll be looking for the next update...
Todd : I find myself praying more than I ever have in my entire life .My prayers are not organized from a religious point of view or structure but individual on my part .I hope and pray that Fran will be feeling better .
Todd, as much as we want to know Fran's condition, Nancy is right; just let us know she's hanging in there. As for you, please accept help! Fran needs you to be strong and healthy mentally and physically. As I have discovered, care giving is very, very difficult, mentally and physically.
Todd, Please consider the offers of help. I know you want to do it all but You need to be strong for Fran. Taking care of yourself is important. You know my thoughts and prayers are coming your way.
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Continued prayers coming your way. I'm so glad to hear you have some one to help with your kittie cats, and it sounds like you are at the point of accepting the help of others. Please take care of yourself, and your dear Fran. ((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))) to both of you.