Hi shmebbie. I am not exactly what you are looking for. I am a woman and I do not dance. I thought, however, if you didn't find what you were looking for, I could at least offer good conversation and a pleasant living situation. I would not be comfortable riding free. While I could not pay the price of a balcony or ocean view room (which is why I will not likely ever sail on Oasis), I can at least pitch in significantly.