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Old February 7th, 2012, 09:07 PM
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I have never heard of anything like this in my life so I was wondering if anyone has experienced this before. I guess the waiter would mess with her more of less flirt with her and her family teased her that he had a crush on her. She said nothing happened between them but I mean the crusie was a few months ago and for this guy to remember her name with all the people he meets on a regular basis must mean she was memorable. Just trying to get people's thoughts on this situation.
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I have never heard of anything like this in my life so I was wondering if anyone has experienced this before. I guess the waiter would mess with her more of less flirt with her and her family teased her that he had a crush on her. She said nothing happened between them but I mean the crusie was a few months ago and for this guy to remember her name with all the people he meets on a regular basis must mean she was memorable. Just trying to get people's thoughts on this situation.
Don't worry about it. It's not unusual for the crew members to remember people by name, it happens quite frequently. They're paid to go out of their way to be nice to the guests. Sometimes genuine friendships form, and other times they're forgotten about when the vacation ends. I've become close friends with quite a few people who I met while they were working on the ships.

Also, keep in mind that as a waiter he works extreme hours, which means during his short breaks he has to choose between sleeping, eating, doing laundry, etc... before returning back to work. Using the internet isn't always their top priority, so it's not surprising that he would add her months later.
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Thank you very much for your reply. It mad me feel much better about the situation. I know it was kinda silly to post something like this but an ex of mine cheated on me on a cruise. It wasn't with a waiter it was with passenger but in my head I automatically jump to cheating. I was thinking that I was cursed with cruise ships and gfs.
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